Archive for September, 2007

There is a Handful

Friday, September 21st, 2007

Dady holding Josiah

This little guy is a handful of joy.

This is a picture of me holding Josiah the latest addition to our family. Josiah is six weeks old today.  He is as beautiful in person as he is in the pictures.

You can read more about all of my three sons on Caden’s Page.

Blackwater’s hot water

Wednesday, September 19th, 2007

Blackwater USA is out of business in Iraq according to the BBC News.  This is the same company supplying security forces in Afghanistan.  A friend’s husband who is an Air Force officer serving in Afghanistan was involved in a road side standoff with a Blackwater employee about a year ago.  That case was fill with suspicions of tampered evidence and false testimony on the Blackwater side of that case.   Back in April my friend’s husband was cleared of all charges that could have sent him to jail.

The recent incident involving Blackwater in Iraq has spawned investigations by the Iraqi and US governments.  There are estimates that reports as many 25,000 civilian security employees in Iraq with about 1000 of them working for Blackwater.  All of the Blackwater security forces have been ordered to leave Iraq expect those involved in the recent roadside shooting incident.  It will be interesting to see how Iraqi security forces and the US military respond to this void of such a large number of armed private security forces in the coming weeks. One report says that the US has suspended land travel of US diplomats in Iraq.

Most of the emphasis is given to the US military presence in Iraq that has peaked at nearly 160,000.  The much overlooked number is an estimated 100,000 plus civilians who are working in Iraq.  After subtracting the security forces, the remaining 75,000 US civilians work in variety of jobs ranging from cooks to translators to pilots to engineers to doctors to laborers.

Growing Kids God’s Way

Thursday, September 13th, 2007

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The Reward System

Thursday, September 6th, 2007

My blogging buddy Danny Kaye is preparing for a debate.

The topic of the debate is “The Reward System” as it is used by employers as a motivator for employees. One team is supposed to argue how the reward system is a great idea and has tons of success, and the other team needs to argue that the reward system is a failure.

I think that reward systems are only as affective as the recipients perceive them to be. I also believe that one size does not fit all employees. I will address this subject with the assumption that the employer is meeting the basic needs of the employees. Looking at the subject of reward systems while considering Gary Chapman’s The Five Love Languages, an employer may have a hard time adequately rewarding all employees to an equal level of satisfaction. I realize that Gary Chapman’s book is primarily concerned with family relationships, the principles taught in his book can easily be applied to just about any relationship.

That said, in terms of countering the other side of the debate, I suggest that Danny Kaye and Susie Q be ready to provide a reason why reward systems are less successful and how they can be improved.  Many reward systems fail because the employer’s rewards do not appeal to the “love” needs of a large enough population of the employees. For example (still keeping in mind Gary Chapman’s Book) a system that only gives letters of recognition and plagues will only appeal to those people whose love language is “Words of Affirmation” or “Receiving Gifts”. A person whose love language is “Acts of Service” would never feel loved by this method of reward system. Even more difficult to reward are those whose love languages are “Physical Touch” and “Quality Time”. If the employee base of a company is largely filled with a bunch of folks who possess these last two love languages, the company will likely not be able to adequately fill the love tanks of employees with a conventional reward system assuming all other basic needs of the employees have been met. If for some reason the basic needs of employees are not being satisfied (i.e., salary, time off, benefits, etc) then there’s plenty of room to reward employees in those basic areas.

My love language is “Words of Affirmation”. Even with that being so, I have enjoyed getting rewards in the past like cash, gift cards, but that was when I was making less money. Once I had a boss tell me to pick any high end restaurant in town (there are a ton in Charleston, SC) and take my wife out on the company card. That type of reward can reach into the quality time love languge by rewarding the employee some quality time with a spouse.

All this said, an employer might give a version of the love language test to help them determine what appeals to employees. For employees whose love languages are physical touch, I would suggest giving something like a gift certificate for a massage. Acts of service can be given in many forms like giving a person a temporary assistant for some period of time.